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Thursday, November 12, 2009

Oh boy! Here Come the Stumbling Blocks

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So, we encountered our first of most likely many stumbling blocks on our road to adoption. As part of the adoption application, we are required to have our fingerprints taken and submitted to do a full background check. I called the department listed on the form and followed the instructions as outlined in the packet. I thought to myself, "oh, no big deal. I'll call this place, set up an appointment, get in there, take fingerprints, and get out. It shouldn't take more than 20 minutes, right?" Well, I was wrong.

First off, I should have known I was headed for trouble when I had to be transferred five times to talk to the department that does fingerprinting. Then once I reached someone who could set up an appointment for us, the soonest date for an available appointment was three weeks out.

I anxiously awaited the date for our appointment and had approval to leave work to go down town. I headed into town through the crazy traffic, one-way streets, adn impossible parking. I met up with Zach and entered the building and into the rom listed on our form. Then I hear the dreaded words, "Uh, ma'am, you're in the wrong place. We don't do finger printing for Human Services. We do fingerprinting for background checks for sex offenders and job applications. That form you have there is really old. We don't do those anymore."

So I got on the phone, made some calls, and sure enough we were in the wrong place. Luckily I was able to track down the phone number to the agency we needed and was able to set up an appointment just a few days away. The downside is another hectic trip into town and taking more time off work. The most frustrating part of the situation is the hassle of taking time off work, additional stress, and yet accomplishing nothing. Just a big 'ol waste of time. But it will all be worth it in the end.

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

I Love This Song

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I've had this song rolling around in my head for several days now. It's one of the newer primary songs, so some of you might not have heard it yet. The music that goes along with the words is beautiful--and even better when the kids are singing it! I just thought I'd post the lyrics because they're great!

Our Father has a family. It’s me!
It’s you, all others too: we are His children.
He sent each one of us to earth, through birth,
To live and learn here in families.
God gave us families to help us become what He wants us to be—
This is how He shares His love, for the family is of God.

A father’s place is to preside, provide,
To love and teach the gospel to his children.
A father leads in fam’ly prayer to share
Their love for Father in Heaven.

God gave us families to help us become what He wants us to be—
This is how He shares His love, for the family is of God.

A mother’s purpose is to care, prepare,
To nurture and to strengthen all her children.
She teaches children to obey, to pray,
To love and serve in the family.

God gave us families to help us become what He wants us to be—
This is how He shares His love, for the family is of God.

I’ll love and serve my family and be
A good example to each family member.
And when I am a mom or dad, so glad,
I’ll help my family remember:

God gave us families to help us become what He wants us to be—
This is how He shares His love, for the family is of God.

It's Official! We've Begun the Paper Pregnancy

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After quite some time of trying to have kids we have decided to adopt! We have started the application and are on our way to becoming parents. 

When our case worker Sally gave us the adoption application, it was this cute little one page paper with a few short questions. I thought to myself, "Wow, this is going to be easier than I thought." Boy was I mistaken. That was the pre-application. We quickly filled that out and met with Sally; then we got the real application. Oh boy! And I thought I had a lot of writing to do when I was in college. We're talking 100+ essays, doctors visits, TB tests, 4 references, bishop's letter, financial statement, employment verification, pictures, letters, one question after another, etc. etc. I'm surprised they didn't ask for a DNA sample.

Although it has been a lot of work, and will continue to be an emotional roller coaster, we're so excited and grateful for this experience and opportunity. Our thoughts, prayers, and hearts go out to all those who have adopted, want to adopt, and birth parents who have and will make adoption arrangements for their precious children. Adoption is an eternal principle and an integral part of the Lord's plan of happiness. We are so excited to have our family grow and want to keep all of our friends and family members updated on our progress through this journey.

If any of you know anyone who is considering placing their child with an adoptive couple, please suggest that they go through It's About Love. It's so important that these children are sealed to loving parents so that they may enjoy the blessings of being sealed in the covenant. We will soon have our profile posted online. We'll send out an announcement once we're up. You can now check out other profiles at the following address: https://www.itsaboutlove.org/ial/search.jsf

Sunday, February 15, 2009

Significant Dates in Our Life

  • Met:                                                           November-ish 1996 (in our health occupations class, love at first sight)
  • First Kiss:                                                   June 23, 1997 (Alyse's 15th Birthday, exploring an abandoned mine deep in the mountainside)
  • Prom:                                                         April 1998 (rock climbing, Mulboon's for dinner)
  • Zach's Mission:                                           December 1998 - December 22, 2000
  • First (unofficial) date, post mission:              December 25, 2000 (saw Cast Away with Zach's family)
  • First date, post mission:                               Sometime between Dec 26 & Dec 30 (saw the Christmas lights at Temple Square)
  • Courtship:                                                   Late December 2000 - April 2004
  • Engaged:                                                     January 1, 2004 (a day to remember)
  • Married in SLC Temple:                             April 24, 2004 (BEST day of our LIVES)
  • Zach started his first production company:   April 2004
  • Purchased our first house:                           October 2005
  • Zach sold his company:                               July 2007
  • First time to Hawaii:                                    November 2007
  • Zach worked on Avatar:                             April 2008
  • Graduated from College:                             Graduation Ceremony April 2008
  • Moved to La'ie, Hawaii:                              June 7, 2008
  • Zach began working on his movie:               June 2008 (on the beach in La'ie)
  • First draft of the script completed:               XXX
  • Alyse started working for Lost:                   August 11, 2008 (Season 5)
  • Moved to Waikiki:                                     September 1, 2008
  • First pieces of artwork completed:              XXX, work done by Tyler, character designs
  • First time to Europe:                                   June 10 - 24, 2009 (AWESOME!)
  • Trip to Chiapas, Mexico:                            July 10 - 24, 2009 (taking pics for Zach's movie--double AWESOME!)
  • Zach started working with Weta on EoaE:   XXX
  • Decided to Adopt:                                      October 2009
  • Decided to Adopt from Rwanda:                December 2, 2009 
  • Decided against international adoption, for now...  December 16, 2009
  • Finished our homestudy!                             February 7, 2010